Thinking of you today  / Marguerite Ward Mom To Angel Brandi (Angel Mom )

Cancer is so limited...

It cannot cripple love
It cannot shatter hope
It cannot corrode faith
It cannot destroy peace
It cannot kill friendship
It cannot suppress memories
It cannot silence courage
It cannot invade the soul
It cannot steal eternal life
It cannot conquer the spirit. 

I am so sorry for the loss of your precious Angel Trevor.  My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family during this very difficult time.  Please know that you are not alone.  There are many of us who have lost a child and know your pain.  When the time is right reach out to others.  Together we can make it through the journey we must travel without our beloved child.  

With Love and Understanding of your Heartbreak,

Marguerite Ward, Mom to Angel Brandi

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You will live forever  / Becky Pike (Faraway Friend )
God put Trevor here to bring us all together, and he did JUST THAT! With his job complete, God called him home........I know he is tucked warmly in the crook of Gods never wavering arm........I looked up last night, and saw the BRIGHTEST star I have ever seen..........I KNOW it was Trevor.....I could just feel it............
Trevor is the reason that I joined the NMDP..............If I am ever a match for anyone, I will make sure my recipient, and EVERYONE involved knows Trevors Story. I am setting up a memorial to him in my garden......He captured a piece of my heart, and he will always live inside me.............I felt a very strong connection to him although I still do not know why....Maybe it's because my little boy is just one month younger? Maybe because he was a good, sweet, kind soul that God put here............Trevor, we never met, but we will always be your friends, and we will NEVER forget!
Becky & Zachary Pike
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My condolences  / ELIZABETH CRUZ (NONE MOMMY OF MASON FAGUNDES )
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Your little star  / Rebecca Morton (no relation )
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, i cannot imagine what you and your family must be going through. Just know that people do care and i hope and pray that you and your family can find comfort someday. When you Wish Upon A Star, your little angel Trevor will be there to answer. Close

I'm so saddened by the loss of this precious little boy  / Jane Eisele (forum friend )
What a beautiful little angel Trevor is!  We held our breath hoping for a donor for Trevor, but God called him home.  It would be wonderful if we could get a movement going for a national database and everyone who's willing could be tested and maybe more matches could be found. We could name it after this blessed little angel. 

It broke my heart when I read the news. My sympathy and sorrow are with his parents who have been through so much. Losing a child seems so unjust..........and cruel beyond words.

We know that little Trevor is now in heaven and enjoying being the newest little "star"............ that's comforting to everyone. But his mother's arms are empty and nothing can make that pain go away. My heart aches for her sorrow.
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MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY  / Lorena Valencia

Hi, I began training with Team in Training this spring to help raise funds for individuals with Leukemia.  I wish there was more I could have done to help Trevor. I know that no words can replace the loss you must be feeling.  I know that Trevor has gone on to be with the Lord.  He is no longer suffering.  I thank God that he gave you the time with Trevor and I pray that these memories you have with him will be one's you will always treasure.  Remember you are not alone in your suffering the Lord is with you.  I pray that one day we will find a cure for this disease.  I admire your families courage and strength.  Continue to find strength in one another.

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Words cannot express my feeling of sympathy  / Erin Melton (an unknown friend praying )
What a BEAUTIFUL boy!  Words cannot begin to express my feelings of sympathy for Trevor's family.  He is with God now and his pain has been relieved.  I pray that your pain will ease with time.  Nothing can ever extinguish the love of a child and memories are forever.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you always. Close

Treasure Of Your Heart  / Lorna Mahan (joined in the fight for life )
Trevor is a treasure of your heart, and to lose him was
like losing a piece of yourself, but the love that he
brought you did not leave, for the essence of his soul lingers. It will not escape your heart, for it has been
there since the day of his birth and will remain forever.
Cling to the memories and let them find their way to
heal you. The love and the laughter, the joy in the togetherness you shared will make you strong.
You'll come to realize that your time together
no matter how long, was meant to be and you were
blessed to have such a precious gift of love in your life.
Keep your heart beating with loving memories
and trust in your faith to guide you through.
Know that life moves on, the beauty of love stays
behind to surround and embrace you.
Trevor has left you that... to hold in your heart forever.
He lives in your heart and in your memories.
                                                   Live Strong in Love
                                                     Lorna Mahan
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Trevors Gift  / Debbie Clarke
Dear Kott Family,
I first learned of Trevor yesterday morning on the cafe board at mycoupons.com. I was a bone marrow donor last year for my brother who has AML. He & I were a perfect match. I was all ready to contact you to see if I could help you out as well & went to caring bridge only to find out too late . I am so sorry for the loss of your incredible son-and you are correct-it was not only your privilege,but everyone's out here that you shared Trevor's story
with. God truly sent him here to teach the rest of us about living and caring for others. You will all be in my prayers,especially Trevors loving big sisters,it must be so hard for them to understand,but Trevor will look out for them from above.  My brother has remained
AML free in his bone marrow,but it entered his central nervous system & also resulted in a brain tumor. Treatment was successful,but has left him paralyzed with transverse myelitis. Despite all this, we continue to fight and pray for his recovery.Like Trevor, my brother is here to teach us all a lesson. I hope that knowing all that you did to get the word out about Trevor and bone marrow donation has impacted so many people in so many ways,you could never imagine. You all are my heroes. Being a caregiver is not an easy job and you turned it into a legacy of love for your son who will never be forgotten. I will continue to pray for your family, that you find comfort and peace during this painful time of loss. I hope that knowing others care and grew to adore your son too,brings you comfort.
Sincerely,Debbie
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Precious little angel  / Allison Harris (Passerby)

What a beautiful little man.  I know that Trevor sits beside our lord on his throne and will eternally be your special angel.  There is no more pain, suffering or a body that couldn't do all of the things that he does with ease now.  I know that nothing can take away the pain that your family must be suffering with knowing that his physical body will never be here again, but there is the hope that comes from knowing that you will all be reunited again.  That time it will be forever.  RIP you precious baby and wrap your angel-soft wings of love around your family to help them navigate the hard road that lies ahead of them.  God bless you all and I will lift your whole family up in prayer.

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Sending our condolences  / Neomi, Jerry &. Erin Miller (Family of Autumn, Michael & Gerald Miller )

To the Kott Family

Sending our condolences to your family and to your courageous little angel.  He is in God's arms and playing with all the other little angels.  One day your family will be reunited with him again.  Our children will help take care of him until then.  Please feel free to visit our children's websites:
www.autumn-miller-jackson-1974-2005.memory-of.com 
www.michael-miller=1982-2005.memory-of.com 
www.geraldtravismiller.memory-of.com 
Keep with this website, some days it is the only thing that keeps our family together.  Keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers everyday.
Neomi, Jerry and Erin Miller

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My condolences  / Tiffany Durkee (none)
I am so sorry for your loss.I know nothing will stop the pain,but Trevor has touched more lives in his 6 months than most people ever will.I will continue to pray for your family.Trevor is an angel and will rest in God's hands until you are reunited again.Since reading his story on cafemom I have signed up to be a bone marrow donor.Although it was too late for your son please find comfort in the fact that because of him many other lives will be saved.Thank you for sharing Trevor with us all and allowing us to also share in your pain.Many of us who have followed this story also feel a sense of loss today and our hearts are breaking with you.You are in my prayers today,tomorrow and always.May God guide and protect all of you and may you find comfort knowing your son is truly a HERO to many. Close

Your son is a hero.  / Jennifer Guarna (none)
I am very sorry for the loss of your beautiful little Trevor. He accomplished so much more in his months here than many people do in decades. He has touched so many lives, united so many people together, fought so hard, and for that he is incredible. Trevor truly is an angel, may he rest in peace. My family, friends and I admire the bravery and strength of not only Trevor, but of your entire family. I offer my condolences to your wonderful family, and I sincerely hope that you are doing well.

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sending a hug to you  / Selma Flynn
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